If he truly means he loves you..

1 See if the person will listen to anything you say. If the person really loves you, then she’ll not only open up to you, but she’ll also listen to anything you have to say — even if she’s heard it all before. Though she won’t be your lapdog, she will be around to hear your thoughts. She’ll nod and respond thoughtfully and not interrupt instead of switching the subject to something she wants to talk about.Part of being in love is just being able to listen. It’s not all about being able to talk.
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2 See if the person is always there for you — even if it’s inconvenient. Sure, if you want to grab a drink or a tasty meal, the person is always around, but what about when you need a ride from the airport or you need someone to walk your dog while you’re sick? If the person truly loves you, then he’ll be there for you during the fun times as well as the not-so-fun times.If the person is only around when you’re happy, lighthearted, or in a good mood, but flees the scene as soon as you’re sad or cranky, then that’s not love.Love is about being there for a person — no matter what. Truly loving a person means accepting all the positive andnegative qualities of that person, and being around during the good times and the bad.

3 Make your life easier.True love isn’t just about what you can take from the person, but what you can give as well.If the person really loves you, then he’ll do nice things for you without you having to ask. It should be implied that you need a favor or help sometimes. If you have to ask for something niceevery time, then that may not be true love.

4 See if the person always wants to be around you. Part of being in love is always wanting to be around the person you love, even if it’s impractical. If the person truly loves you, then he or she will want to be around you — a lot. This doesn’t mean the person will want to be attached at the hip, but it does mean that the person will try to take as many opportunities as possible to see you.This doesn’t mean that the person will want to be with you 24/7. But if the person can only make time to see you once or twice a month, it’s very likely that it isn’t love.

5 See if the person knows when to give you space. If the person truly loves you, then he’ll not only want to be around you a lot, but he’ll also know when to give you space and do your own thing.i made a mistake by not giving space to my Mekh. If the person wants to be around you all the time, then that’s not love — it’s madness and that’s where i was trapped. As love matures, two people will realize that they still need to do things separate to maintain their own identities.If the person wants to be around you every waking moment, then that may be more of a sign of that person’s insecurities than true love.

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6 See if he truly supports you. If he really loves you, then he’ll not only be there for the fun times, but he’ll be there to help you achieve your goals and move forward in your life. If he truly loves you, then he’ll be there in the bleachers during your soccer game, he’ll be there to see you defend your thesis, and he’ll be there to give you a ride to your job interview. And he’ll be there whenever you want to talk about something that means a lot to you.If he really loves you, then he’ll support you to achieve your goals or pursue your interests, even if they have nothing to do with him.

Above all he will hold your hand and say “world can wait .. I will spend rest of my life with you. Trust me, You will be at peace just by looking at him.” That man completes you.. that’s him.

NeilMekh

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