Love and obligation

Dear Reader , there was a query if love is an obligation then i would say,If somebody loves you, be thankful, but don’t demand anything—because the other has no obligation to love you.

Rather than thinking how to get love, start giving.  If you give, you get.

Become individuals, that’s the first thing.  The second thing is, don’t expect perfection and don’t ask and don’t demand. Love ordinary people.  Nothing is wrong with ordinary people. Ordinary people are extraordinary!  Each human being is so unique; have respect for that uniqueness.  Third, give, and give without any condition—then you will know what love is.  I cannot define it.  I can show you the path to grow it.  I can show you how to put in a rosebush, how to water it, how to give fertilizers to it, how to protect it.  Then one day, out of the blue, comes the rose, and your home is full of the fragrance. That’s how love happens.

Love is the only religion, the only god, the only mystery that hs to be lived, understood.  When love is understood, you have understood all the sages and all the mystics of the world. 

If you understand that it will change, that once in a while your partner may become interested in somebody, and you have to be understanding and loving and caring and allowing her to go the way her being feels—this is a chance for you to prove to your partner that you love her.  You love her; even if she is going to love somebody else, that is irrelevant.  With understanding, it is possible that your love may become a lifelong affair, but remember it will not be permanent.  It will have its ups and downs, it will have changes.

The flower of love can blossom only when there is no ego, when there is no effort to dominate, when one is humble, when one is trying not to be somebody but is ready to be nobody.  Then awareness will come of its own accord and this is the most beautiful way…this love will not be falling in love; I call it rising in love.

The moment your love is without any jealousy, without any conditionings, but just a sharing of the dance of the heart, you will experience centering…love is their science, centering is their result.

Love never hurts anybody.  And if you feel you have been hurt by love, it is something else in you, not your loving quality, that feels hurt.

I love Mekh look how I live. Some people might find me amusing or shameless. I had asked her if she truly loves me and if she is my wife.Her answer was YES. We lived our lives like couple. I dont need to prove anything to any one. Our hearts know she may regret but i dont.Same was said for sohni and mahiwal heer ranjha, even today’s mastani . How similar 🙂 .

Neilmekh

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