Pure love will pain..

Our greatest felt needs are to be loved, forgiven, whole and alive. Do you feel compelled to somehow respond to krishna’s love for Radha or meera’s love for Krishna on the banks of river   Do you feel compelled to enter deeper into the experience of krishna’s forgiveness?

That feeling is no accident. It is a divine appointment.

Love. It’s what we all want. To be loved is the most amazing thing that can happen to you.   But sometimes everything goes wrong — love hurts us and we’re left holding bruised hearts in our hands.  Where do we go from here?

Wanting to be loved is part of what it means to be human.  We’re all looking for love, but not just any love – unconditional love, pure love. Do you wonder if anyone can love you as you truly are? Why is pure love so hard to find? Maybe it’s because we keep looking in all the wrong places.

Maybe you have looked for love in your family. You have tried your whole life to please them and make them happy. But it was never enough.

Maybe you have looked for love in a physical relationship. You tell yourself, “If I share my body, I will feel loved.” But you never do.
Maybe you have looked for love in popularity. “If everyone knows me, then I will feel loved and accepted.” But that’s a game you can’t always win, and when you do, you are still lonely.

Pure love will always hurt you. You know why?
It will hurt you because it’s pure caught among so much impurities. It’s same as God.  Pure love for God will make u cry.

Love is painful because it transforms. Love is mutation. Each transformation is going to be painful because the old has to be left for the new. The old is familiar, secure, safe, the new is absolutely unknown. You will be moving in an uncharted ocean. You cannot use your mind with the new’ with the old, the mind is skillful. The mind can function only with the old’ with the new, the mind is utterly useless.

Hence, fear arises, and leaving the old, comfortable, safe world, the world of convenience, pain arises. It is the same pain that the child feels when he comes out of the womb of the mother. It is the same pain that the bird feels when he comes out of the egg. It is the same pain that the bird will feel when he will try for the first time to be on the wing.

The fear of the unknown, and the security of the known, the insecurity of the unknown, the unpredictability of the unknown, makes one very much frightened.

And because the transformation is going to be from the self towards a state of no-self, agony is very deep. But you Cannot have ecstasy without going through agony. If the gold wants to be purified, it has to pass through fire.

Good morning Mekh.
I love you.
Neilmekh

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